| Location | Rotherham |
| Age | 13 days |
| Cause of Death | Natural Causes |
| Date of Birth | 04/11/2002 |
| Date of Death | 17/11/2002 |
| Visitors | 3,149 since 22/10/2008 |
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please follow this link to learn more about Group B strep-the infection that killed Jamie,knowledge
may help you protect your own family:http://www.dhpe.org/infect/strepb.html
Jamie was born on the 4th November 2002-he came early,i was only 31 weeks pregnant.He was delivered
at our local hospital but needed transferring because he needed specialist breathing equipment.We
were settling down into a routine of visiting him at the hospital and then we had the horrible shock
of being told that a brain scan had shown he had massive brain damage caused by an infection called
Group B strep.
So Paul and i had to deal with the tragic loss of a much loved and wanted son.The devastation can
never be understood.Why did this little soul never even have a chance?,there is so much i don't
understand.
I would like Jamie to be remembered because he was one of us and his chance of growing up with
Paul,me and his brothers was taken away from us.
we had to go to the hospital for scans, the weeks before jamies birth and to listen to his
heart,through mary's womb fluids low,we seen this as a treat,as we were seeing him on the scan
machine,some of the things he was upto were amazing,we and the people doing the scans,had a good
laugh,he was a real character,we were wishing we could afford a scan machine so we could see him all
the time,.
i talked to him through mary's stomache,all the time,they can recognise familiar voices and music,a
lot earlier than his 30 weeks,.
an emergency section was performed,at 31and half weeks,they took him to scuba,but cos i was there
when they operated,and seen mary in that state,i felt i needed to stay with her,jamie was fine,after
completion,stitches etc,i raced round to scbu,it was a different scene altogether,there was docs,
nurses,and they were hand pumping oxygen into jamie,they said he'd got a breathing problem,i was in
shock ,they seemed pretty casual,but i was'nt,a few things bothered me,but one of the nurses
pumping,complained about the pain it was causing her arms,i offered to do it,a kid could'v done
it,she said ,no its o.k.
but i was thinking what you moaning about then,,i'm his dad you should'nt be saying this to me,.but
i dare'nt say anything,.
for someone whose not been in that situation,they'd probably think i was paranoid,but i did'nt and
still dont trust the staff at that hospital,all the way up to the consultant,after a while i went
round to mary who was on a ward recovering,
i could'nt tell her,it was a big decision for me to make not telling her,but there was'nt anything
she could do,i went back to scbu,he was no better,.back to the ward,several times i went back and
forth,he was born 9 am,by tea time,iwas back on scbu and they told me they were taking him to a
leeds hospital,some 40 to 50 miles away,for special breathing equipment.
the sister on scuba was trying to get me to just accept defeat she thought he was'nt worth saving it
seemed with what she said, then i had to go and tell mary,the truth,.
i do regret not telling her sooner now.she could'nt go round to scbu,sooner than this anyway,cos of
the stitches,but her world fell in on her totally,all at once,and i'd been thinking,he'll pull
through,till the cold hearted sister on scuba told me in the manner she told me,.
mary was wheeled round to scbu in her bed,it was horrible the atmosphere,the nasty sister,was very
cold and clinical,i was glad she was a woman and not a man,i think i would'v lost it.
i followed the special ambulance to leeds,,it was so heartbreaking and scary leaving mary in this
hospital,but i could'nt do anything else,i had to be with jamie,i know he knew my voice,the poor
little thing was so lonely.the staff at leeds wre a breath of fresh air,so caring,.
i stayed that night ,mary was transfered the next day to leeds,i had to leave em both,and go home to
sort things out,and went back later,it was a nightmare, we never woke up out of..
it was'nt a straight forward case of losing our son,and try to grieve,over it ,we had other things
to deal with,like the nurse on scubu ward that kept coming in the room we was given to stay with
jamie (to die) after the machines had been switched off,she came in several times,but the last time
she did ,she stayed for ages,and was talking about clubbing and pubs, we did'nt have our last
moments with jamie,free of this horrible person cold insensitive thing,and that grieves me and his
mum,
some may say, you should'v said to her to go,but even after his death ,i did'nt want any
mistreatment aimed at him,after the things that happened and the things we seen,nothing was beyond
this third world cold hospital.and yes i'm bitter,but in rotherham you cant get good service even in
most bakeries even,they have a bad attitude problem,
staff who work at this hospital avoid this hospital,and go to nearby ones,and take their family
members else where,AVOID AT ALL COST you'll regret this if you end up having to go there...
we applied for jamies notes etc but the imfamous hospital would'nt agree ,so we had to employ a
solicitor,although they were'nt very good,we at least got some things sorted,the reason i'm writing
this is i'm bitter,and always will be regarding the loss of my son,.but to hopefully avoid this
hospital,when mary was taken in for section i was with the consultant,in the staff changing room as
i was going to be in on the op,the consultant,put on his gounds and wellington type boots,and
pointed to other gounds to choose for me ,to wear,his and mine were covered in old dried blood,i was
looking at him and myself in shock,all these films etc where you see the staff scrubbing up etc ,all
fresh clean clothes,no not at this hospital,so if you do go to this hospital,and you are in for an
op,phew! goodluck,we dont think this caused jamies illness,but it would contribute to someonelses
germ spreading,the consultant in question,was in the spotlight recently,for misjudgement,which in
turn caused the death of a baby,.but they'r above reproach it seems,a law unto themselves,i so
regret not getting him in a choke and threatening him with undescribable violence,and thats not my
character,RDGH
YOUR SON
I HAVE JUST READ YOUR STORY AND I AM DISGUSED BUT NOT SURPRISZED WHEN I WENT TO SEE MY SON AT L R I AFTER HE DIED I WAS ASKED DO U WANT TO SEE HIS REMAINS / HE HAD ONLY JUST DIED IN A CAR TO OUS HE WAS STILL OUR SON STAFF HAVE NO RESPECT
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SHINING,SPARKLING,AND SPLENDIDLY BRIGHT.
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Tributes For This Weekend
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THE GIFT OF MEMORY……
One gift, above all others
God gives to us to treasure
One that knows no time, no place
And one gold cannot measure
The precious, poignant tender gift
Of Memory...that will keep
Of dear ones ever in our hearts
Although God gives them sleep
It brings back long remembered things
A song, a word, a smile
And the world's a better place
...because
We had them for awhile!
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I AM YOUR ANGEL......
I am an angel by your side,
Don't be scared or try to hide.
For I am here guiding you the way,
By your side here to stay.....
I will be with you, when times are hard,
So please do not worry, or put up a guard.
For I want you too see I am still here,
To keep you safe, and keep you near....
As an angel I want so much for you to know,
'How much I Love And Miss You So'
So if you see me, please do not hide,
I am the angel by your side...
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Family Chain
We little knew that morning,
God was going to call your name,
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
You did not go alone.
For part of us went with you
The day God called you home.
You left us beautiful memories,
Your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you,
You are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken,
and nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.
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I PROMISE I WILL HEAR…..
Don't think of me as dead and gone
Please understand I have just moved on
God took my hand
When you thought I had died
And led me over to the other side.
There's a better life
Than the one we know
And to it one day we all must go
No more pain, hardship,
Or times of misery
Instead there's all our loved ones
As happy as can be.
You may not see me for a little while
Hear me laugh or see me smile
But I promise you with all my heart
From the ones I love I will never part.
I will always be with you,
However far you walk
I will always listen,
When you feel you need to talk
So when you are saddened
Or driven to despair
Take comfort from the knowledge
That I am always there.
One day soon I will share with you
The happiness I have found
And you will see life doesn't end
Six feet beneath the ground
Forget about graveside visits
And fresh flowers every day
A yearly verse in the papers
Is surely not the way
When there is something you want to say
Or you wish that I was near
Just talk to me like you always did
I promise I will hear.
Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
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LOVE CHRISTOPHER & ANGELA X X
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I'm just a little Angel
Sent from up above
To help guide you and protect you
And give you lots of love.
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On those days when you feel lonely
Kinda sad and blue
You'll feel my little Angel wings
Tenderly enfolding you.
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I'm just a little Angel
Come down from Heaven above
Who will always and forever
Give you my "Bestest" Angel Hugs.
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Lights of Love
Can you see our candles
Burning in the night?
Lights of love we send you
Rays of purest white
Children we remember
Though missing from our sight
In honour and remembrance
We light candles in the night
All across the big blue marble
Spinning out in space
Can you see the candles burning
From this human place?
Oh, angels gone before us
Who taught us perfect love
This night the world lights candles
That you may see them from above
Tonight the globe is lit by love
Of those who know great sorrow,
But as we remember our yesterdays
Let's light one candle for tomorrow
IF HEAVEN HAD A PHONE
I cannot dial your number,
I can't get through to you,
I called the operator,
She did all that she could do.
There is no code for heaven,
I cannot place the call,
No numbers left to call,
I reckon I've tried them all.
If heaven had a phone,
I'd ring you every day,
If heaven had a phone,
There's things I want to say.
To tell you that I love you,
And miss you every day,
How much I prayed to god,
That he could let you stay.
If heaven had a phone,
I'd ring you every day,
If heaven had a phone,
I'd hear your voice, know you're okay,
I just want to speak to heaven,
Please do you have a direct line,
Operator says no number,
But your loved one says they’re doing fine.
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
For Friday
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Tribute for this weekend
Candles will be lit on
Sunday For Monday
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A FOUR LEAF CLOVER
A four leaf clover
A treasure priceless and rare
Like my child in heaven above
Now in gods tender loving care.
Each leaf a meaning a part of my grief
One leaf for strength
One for memories so dear
One leaf for peace
And one for my faith in god above.
Each represents a part of my life
My child in heaven
Forever missed and forever loved.
The first leaf on the clover
Stands for strength
To make it through the day
From morning to night darkness to light
With gods help each step of the way.
The second leaf on the clover
Stands for peace
That only god can bring
A peace that restores my mourning heart
Smoothes the edges of pain
And help me learn to live again.
The third leaf on the clover
Stands for memories
That I hold dear
Their spirit will shine on
In the memories left behind
Although time may pass
They will never disappear.
The fourth leaf on the clover
Stands for faith in god above
Believing with all my heart
In what I cannot see
Knowing we will meet again
By the golden gates in heaven above.
Until then I’ll Keep my memories
Tucked deep inside with love
Along with my four leaf clover
My treasures from heaven above.
A clover A treasure Blessings
From above strength peace
Memories and faith
All sent from heaven with gods everlasting love.
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The Mention Of Your Name
Do you make them laugh up their,
Does your smile bring them good cheer?
Do you make the sun shine brighter,
Like you did when you were here?
The very mention of your name,
The memories of your smile,
The little things you said and did,
Are with us all the while.
You meant so very much to us,
There’s nothing left to say,
Except that without you here
There is no perfect day.
For no one knows the heartache,
That lies behind our smiles,
No one knows how many times
We have broken down & cried.
We want to tell you something
So there wont be any doubt,
You're so wonderful to think of,
But so hard to be without...
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Sweet Memories
I never meant to leave you
Could I have only stayed
We would be going on in life
With all the plans we made
Now all the hopes and dreams we shared
Are but sweet memories
For you to tuck inside your heart
Now when you remember me
Remember all the good times
And all the joy we shared
Remember how you touched my life
And how I really cared
Think back on all the laughter
And wipe away the tears
You have still many miles to go
And still have many years
Don't look back, look forward
This day is a brand new start
And as you travel on in life
You'll take a bit of my heart
I never meant to leave you
But still you'll not be alone
For as long as my love lives in you
I'll never really be gone
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela X Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
For Friday
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Tribute For This Weekend
Candles Will Be Lit On Sunday For Monday
My Very Special Mum
My Mum is a survivor,
Or so I've heard it said.
But I can hear her crying at night,
When all others are in bed.
I watch her lay awake at night,
And go to hold her hand.
She doesn't know I'm with her,
To help her understand.
But like the sands on the beach,
That never wash away...
I watch over my surviving Mum,
Who thinks of me each day.
She wears a smile for others...
A smile of disguise!
But through Heaven's door I see,
Tears flowing from her eyes.
My Mum tries to cope with death,
To keep my memory alive.
But anyone who knows her knows,
It is her way to survive.
As I watch over my surviving Mum,
Through Heaven's open door...
I try to tell her that angels,
Protect me forevermore.
I know that doesn't help her...
Or ease the burden she bears.
So if you get a chance, go visit her...
And show her that you care.
For no matter what she says...
No matter what she feels,
My surviving Mum has a broken heart,
That time won't ever heal.
Dad’s Cry Too….
I cannot ease your aching heart Dad,
Nor take your pain away;
But let me stay and take your hand
And walk with you today.
I'll listen when you need to talk Dad,
I'll wipe away your tears;
I'll share your worries when they come,
I'll help you face your fears.
I'm here and I will stand by you Dad,
On each hill you have to climb;
So take my hand, let's face the world...
And live just one day at a time.
You're not alone, for I'm still here Dad,
I'll go that extra mile;
And when your grief is easier,
I'll help you learn to smile
An Angel From Heaven
God sent me an angel from heaven above
It's filled with complete unconditional love
It watches and follows wherever I go
If I'm happy or sad this little angel does know
It climbs upon my lap and wipes away all my tears
One look in those eyes wipes away all my fears
For in those soft gentle eyes there’s something I see
Which speaks to me silently 'you always have me'
As those soft gentle kisses bring a smile to my face
And a love in my heart which can't be replaced
It continues to tell me in it's own special way
Of how much it loves me as it begins to say
'At night I will cuddle by your side while you sleep
My life is to love you, this promise I keep
I'll wake you come morning with kisses galore
You'll giggle and laugh and ask me for more'
'When sadness you feel or life lets you down
I'll do whatever it takes to wipe off your frown
I'll show you some tricks, I'll bring you my toy
Or rest my head in your lap, if this brings you joy'
'If sickness should keep you in bed for the day
I'll stay right beside you, we don't have to play
And if going for walks is something you do
I'll be your companion take me with you'
I'll try hard to show you my love is so strong
I'll try only to please you, I'll try not to do wrong
If a mistake I should make, then I ask this of you
Remember that angels can make mistakes too'
'I'll ask not much of you, it's for love that I yearn
Because loves what god taught me to give in return
It's all unconditional and comes straight from the heart
And my promise I give you till death do us part'
'So this is my story one I wanted to share
Of my littlest angel who's always right there
This littlest angel that I'm so thankful of
Yes this littlest angel of unconditional love'
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
THANKS A MILLION!!!!
I am so pleased to have my computer back I have really really missed lighting my candles & messages for Christopher I miss him so much.
I would like to thank each and every one of you
that have continued to light candles, leave tributes & photographs for Christopher while my computer has been getting fixed.
It has really annoyed me that I have been unable
to light my candles & tributes for all your wonderful angels.
I have missed being in touch with all of you,
and not being able to read all the lovely messages
you leave for Christopher & I they really do mean such a lot to me.
It will take me awhile to read all the messages I have missed but I will read each and every one of them once again thank you all for your support
it is very much appreciated you are all so very kind
A part of us is missing
And there is nothing we can do
The part of us that’s missing,
My dearest Angel is you
Thoughts Today Memories Forever
Angela(Christopher-John Rowe) Mum
For Monday
IT'S SO GOOD TO BE BACK ON-LINE
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HAPPY EASTER EVERYONE
Candles will be lit as usual
On Sunday For Monday
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The sky is full of bunny clouds
So soft and fat and white,
I wonder if they're hiding eggs
For angels to find with delight.
Because angels like Easter as well, you know,
And there's no reason why
There shouldn't be an Easter hunt
In meadows in the sky.
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The tiny bunny
Is working all day long
Decorating Easter eggs
While humming a song
He is having so much fun
Making eggs for you and me
And small chocolate bunnies
That he gives away free
But when he is finished
He'll bring them your way
In a big coloured basket
Upon Easter day
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A SPECIAL EASTER WISH
This special Easter wish
That comes with love to you
Brings warm and heartfelt thanks
For all the thoughtful things you do--
It also comes to let you know
You mean so much more each day
To everyone your lives have touched
In such a loving way.
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FUNNY BUNNY
Little Easter, the comedienne bunny,
Tried too hard at being funny.
She juggled and she dropped the eggs
They fell and smashed between her legs.
Poor Easter left the stage in shame
And thought that she might change her name.
But then that bunny read this ad,
"This Sunday we need help real bad."
So Easter Bunny kept her name
And through the years has gained much fame,
When Easter's Sunday comes each year.
She delivers eggs and we all cheer.
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Angela(Christopher-John Rowe)Mum
For Friday
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